Why Women Are Dating Older Men
I’m not much of a love guru but this is what I think….
Most women find older men (say.. 5-10years of age difference) are more mature than men their own age. Let me remind you that we, women mature earlier (and faster) than men therefore wants to be with a man who is almost at the same level of maturity as women. I don’t really think that most women would really appreciate it if their man prefers to play Left 4 Dead, Counter-Strike, *insert more computer/console games* rather than spending time with them….. Unless she’s a gamer too… Hehehehehhe..
Older men will enjoy the ‘almighty’ feeling as the woman is looking up to him for guidance & gain more life experiences (don’t ask me to elaborate what type of guidance or life experiences laaa).
Mature men are more self-confident as they know themselves better, a trait that attracts younger women. Even though they are sexually experienced (but they tend to have less sex drive), many women find lovemaking with an older man is more fulfilling to them, as they are better at listening to the woman’s needs than a man their own age tends to be. Not being controlled by their testosterone, mature men are often better in bed than younger men. They often view pleasure differently than younger men and are more concern with the woman’s pleasure as opposed to their own.
Older men are more stable emotionally, financially and most of them are established in their chosen careers than younger men. That sense of security tends to attracts younger women.
Ok… We women are suckers for chivalry (hey, admit it okay). Older men tend to have more respect for woman and they are polite & have good manners. We just loves those men that can woo our family members especially our parents. Women like men who know how to be a gentlemen, act like one and behave like one. Most women want to be with men who are responsible and can stand on their own two feet and are able to support themselves and take care of themselves.
Here is an example…. This is a FB conversation that took place between me and a guy from my high school… Do take note that this guy is at the same age as I am… Hehehehe… Let’s call him M.
M: alamak ko rupanya…dah banyak berubah yek sekarang…makin cute le…stay mana skrg?
(Oh! It’s you. You have changed alot, getting cuter. Where are you now?)
DiEsE: takde byk berubahnye laaa… sama aje.. aku skrg ada kat bangi
(Not much change.. Still look the same.. I’m in Bangi now)
M: aduh boring betul..tanya ja member semua dok belah sana…takda ka yang duduk utara ni…hehehe…….kahwin dah ka?
(Geez.. Such a bore.. I’ve asked everyone and all of them staying at that side.. No one staying at the northern side… Married yet?)
DiEsE: aku baru aje pindah balik bangi… sblm ni duduk kat butterworth..
kawin?! takde yang mampu lagi..
(I just moved back to Bangi, before this I was staying in Butterworth. Marriage? No one is eligible yet)
M: takde yang mampu lg…hai letah harga hantaran mahal sangat kot…jgn la mahal2 sngat nanti jadi andartu terus merudum harga…heheheh
(No one is eligible yet? Ish.. You must’ve demanded a high dowry… Don’t demand too high because later you when will be an old spinster, the price will drop like hell… Hehehehe)
DiEsE: skrg mana main letak harga hantaran dah… takde hantaran pun takpe, lagi bagus.
kalau tak mampu nak tanggung bakal bini lepas kawin, baik tak payah kawin kan?!
dah andartu dah pun, takde lak turun harga.. makin naik adalaa… maklumlaa.. kadar inflasi negara pun dah naik dah..
(Well, nowadays where got dowry anymore… No dowry is even better. If a man can’t afford to support a wife after marriage, better not get married right? I’m already an old spinster, I didn’t see the price going down… Going up is more like it.. You know, since the national inflation rate has increased..)
And it’s been almost 1 month since last I heard from him…. *evil grin*
Now do u get what I mean?! Gettit?! Muahahahaha…
Now.. The next question is…
If all the younger women date older men, what would happened to the younger men?
P/S: Please ignore the irrelevant pictures posted here and the bad BM to English/Manglish translation… I prefer to post up my pics rather than the ones from free stock sites and hey, my BM –> English is not that powderful kay…
I Wanna Date Older Men Too XD,
DiEsE of BaYnN.com




February 10th, 2010 at 11:25 am
WHERE GOT DOWRY ONE NOWADAYS??!! THIS MORON STILL LIVING IN THE 50′S AH? AHHAHAHAHAHA
February 10th, 2010 at 11:29 am
based on my experience.. girls my age arent that matured.. the guy friends my age are more matured.. lol..
February 10th, 2010 at 10:56 pm
kenwooi: ahahaha… i guess it’s different from my generation… wait.. that makes me sound THAT old.. XD
February 10th, 2010 at 10:58 pm
Jess: Sadly to say, dowry aka hantaran is still going strong in Malay culture… I don’t understand why the hell the brider-to-be parents are willing to put A PRICE on their own daughter, flesh & blood….